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Brotherly Judgment
Ten Rules for Improving the Church and Cooperation Among Members
- Tell yourself over and over that since you are not perfect, you would not fit into a perfect congregation if one existed.
- Instead of picking out the worldly members to point to, pick out the sincere, educated, spiritual members, and thank God for them. You will find what you seek.
- If you are old, treat the young with the consideration you desired as a young person. If you are young, treat adults with the respect you will want when you mature.
- When you are tempted to criticize others, be sure to pray earnestly for them first. This may not totally change them, but it will do wonders for your attitude.
- When you see a work being neglected, instead of being critical, offer to help.
- Never, never blame others for your own failure. Every individual can be fruitful in spite of the bad examples and discouraging attitudes of others if he is determined to be.
- Remind yourself every day that the only way you can improve the world and the church is to begin with self.
- Consciously look for the good qualities in every brother and sister in Christ. When you think of a brother or sister, make a quick mental note of the good points each possesses.
- Constantly strive to increase your circle of associates in the church. Try to do something good for each.
- Every church has problems. Constantly ask yourself, “Am I a part of the problem or part of the solution?”
Before you criticize someone
you should walk a mile in his shoes;
that way when you criticize him,
you are a mile from him
and you have his shoes.