Resources/Articles
"You Just Ruined It"
It is a terrible thing to have a new dress, shirt, or shoes ruined because we spilt something on it that will not come out. Young children have probably heard their parents’ displeasure after having played baseball with their “good clothes” on, especially when the dirt and grass stains will not come out. There are things people ruin which are far worse than grape juice spilt on a white shirt.
Immoral relationships of fornication, adultery, and incest have ruined lives with divorce, disease, guilt, and anxiety. Dreams have been shattered. Hopes are dissolved. It gives what God calls “marriage” a bad name. Can people not develop a human relationship the way God intends - a relationship God said in the beginning was “good”? Why do people want to ruin such a “good” thing?
A good name is hard to come by and the easiest thing to ruin.Judas was probably once a good-natured fellow, but within a few hours turned to traitor. Cain was a good brother until jealously led him to murder. David was as courageous as any young man you would meet, but he lost self-control and his lust for another woman gave occasion for the enemies of Jehovah to blaspheme (2 Samuel 11:14). “A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches…” (Proverbs 22:1).
Consider the greatest ruin in Luke 6:49. “But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that built a house upon the earth without a foundation; against which the stream brake, and straightway it fell in; and the ruin of that hosue was great.” Great is the ruin of a house, mansion, cathedral, and palace, because of the skill, energy, time, and toil it took to put such a building together now lies in waste. When a soul is lost, the labor in teaching, the patience, and the prayers for that soul’s obedience is all thrown away. We may have a hard time “estimating” the value on a soul lost, but God knows all too well. He told us it is worth more than the entire material world (Mark 8:36). The ruin of one life is bad, but when one life is ruined and lost in hell, others soon follow. “A little leaven leaveneth the whole lump” (1 Corinthians 5:6).
We cannot sit back and think, “This is my life. What I do has nothing to do with you! It is not ruining things for you!” Yes, it does. It ruins the virtuous traits of self-respect, decency, morality, goodness, responsibility, loyalty, and hope. It is ruined for yourself and others. We do not live in “our own little world”. We live in the only world there is. Obey God. Do not ruin life for yourself or others!
